Mid-faith Crisis 311: Go slow and repair things

After a brief debate about which of us is the more miserable, we discuss whether social media can help us engage with our shadow, detaching from the news without feeling guilty, and how hate actually tethers us to the object of our hatred. Also we have a discussion about Advent. This year I’m thinking a lot about the need to focus on small things. Advent is part of that. The nativity accounts seem quite big and spectacular, what with exotic magi, strange stars and deranged rulers.

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Mid-faith Crisis 308: What the heck, I'll pray anyway

In this week’s episode we talk about prayer and laughter, about creativity, and about the everyday acts of hope that help us transcend the news. As usual I climbed onto my high horse about social media for a bit, as a listener wrote in quoting that bit from Shaun Lambert’s interview, where talked about ‘Freeing our attentional capacities from the virtual world is the number one ethical task’. Which I have written a bit more about here.

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Freeing our attentional capacities from the virtual world is the number one ethical task

In an interview on our podcast with Shaun Lambert, he gave this quote: ‘Freeing our attentional capacities from the virtual world is the number one ethical task’. I’m not sure where the quote comes from1, but in the wake of the US election, it seems truer than ever. The main argument for leaving social networks has been about preserving our own mental health. But there is an ethical side as well.

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Mid-faith Crisis 307: 'Stick two fingers up to the forces of darkness'

Well. It’s been a bit of a week and many people are struggling with disappointment, darkness and fear. So in this podcast we talk about how we can respond in these times. In particular, I wanted to frame joy as a choice – not as a kind of escapism, but as a revolutionary, even insubordinate act. Like Jesus' embodiment of nonviolent protest, choosing joy and laughter and hope in these times can be seen as defiance, not defeat.

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I’m getting mindfulness advice from my marmalade.


Mid-faith Crisis 306: An interview with Martyn Joseph

This week, Joe interviews singer-songwriter Martyn Joseph. He talks about his career, the craft of song-writing, the pressures and joy of touring, and we end, of course, with a song. One of the thing which struck me most is that Martyn emphasises the importance of ‘turning up’ - not just going through the motions but giving the best you can give for whatever audience you have and whatever you are doing.

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I follow the Wordhord Old English word of the day. Today’s word - ‘throsm’ - is wonderful.


Mid-faith Crisis 305: The microphone in my heart

Is God really in charge of the universe? Do prophecies actually happen? Lots of interesting feedback this week, coming out of last week’s chat about prophecy, guidance and generally ‘hearing’ from God. For some years now I’ve been thinking about our life as a collaboration with God, rather than God micro-managing everything. Christians, to me, often drift into a kind of fatalism, where everything is pre-ordained and planned. Such a concept of God seems to me to be more controlling than loving.

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Before you go nuts and indulge in behavior you’ve never seen in yourself before, try to remember this. Nobody in Africa cares. Nobody in Asia cares. Nobody in Lapland cares. Nobody in baseball cares, in golf, in soccer—except maybe if you’re writing about baseball or golf or soccer. But even then they don’t care about you: They care about baseball players and golfers, people who bang balls around.

Carolyn See on putting your work, and your behaviour, into perspective.


Mid-faith Crisis 304: Fetch the prophecy scales!

In this episode we returned to one of the central questions of theology: is it right to pray for a parking space? As I say in the programme, I believe in an interventionist God, but I’m not sure he intervenes in quite the way we think. I was also really touched this week by an email from someone who, in the middle of a sad and difficult time, experienced a moment of mindfulness and grace.

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